Where have I been????

Its been a while...i'm back on. A lot has happened since my last post. I suppose I shall blog soon about my silly, funny, fun, ridiculous life :-)

Digging dirt out the trash can

I know I am not alone on this one.

There is a reason we throw things away....for example, old papers, unnecessary crap, men, are great things to throw away when you (maybe not you...me definitely) are done with them...yet for some reason I find myself digging in the trash.....why o why???

I was speaking to Tynesha the other day about men and how it bothers me every time I meet a new guy...its almost like a job interview.... "Hi, I'm Cheri, born and raised in Houston, TX...I moved here ___ months ago....yes it was totally random....sure, you can call me some time..." I get so tired of going over my "credentials" with guys. The ones that make it far enough mess it up (well i do my fair share of damage) and yep, you guessed it, back to square one!

So I find myself thinking about how well "this guy" knows me and wonder "how is he doing"? Forgetting the reason we stopped talking in the first place. And the minute he makes me mad reminds me why I dumped him in the trash.... its like a big cycle of nothingness....

all in the name of love, lust, companionship....?

I think not...

Then I remember, the reason why I am single now. I pull up my Bible on my crackberry and begin to find some real answers......

We will see how this goes!

M.I.A in VA

So its been a while since I've made a post but trust me, you aren't really missing much these days! Life feels like a drag some days. Its funny how you have all these MAJOR plans and dreams and a year from now...everything is pretty much...well, the same!

In a years time, I've graduated from college and moved to VA. I got a job working at a bank where everyone refers to my branch manager as mickey mouse and he tells all the cute guys "Cheri is like a daughter to me so you better watch it.."! Besides working with a him and the daily bs...it really isn't all that bad...but the pay is...but I digress!

So, I started working on my website today....I'm going to give myself until thanksgiving to have it complete (at least the design and layout) so if you are looking to do a website...holla at cha girl (I already have two clients so you will be on a waiting list lol)

That's it for now....i guess.... I'll keep you guys posted...

oh and follow me on twitter: twitter.com/thecheriamour

Peeeeaaaaccceee (in my pamela james voice)

Happy 1st Birthday Spring 2008: Refined Illustrations of Poise

Happy Birthday Line Sisters!!!!!!!!!!!

It has been one HELL OF A YEAR! I mean that sincerely! But you know what, I wouldn't trade my 16 line sisters for the world! They are all unique and special in their own way and I am so blessed to have such a wonderful group of girls in my life!

LS': Thank you for being my everything over the past year....my friends, sisters, support, boyfriends (lol) confidence, strength, love, and comfort. When life felt like it was against me, I don't care what time of day or night it was...you guys have been there. Thank you and I love y'all for real!

Happy Birthday my loves!

Love,
#4 Blessed Sentiment
SPR 08-Refined Illustrations of Poise
Theta Epsilon
We all we got!

My life in VA pt.2

If I could describe my life in one word right now it would be AMAZING! I know what it feels like to be happy, but this is a different type of happiness... the kind of happiness that makes you feel bad when you speak to other people are they aren't as happy as you. But it hasn't been easy, happiness always comes at a cost. I miss my family and friends. I miss Houston, and I miss having my own place (even though I loooove living here, I need my own privacy sometimes lol). I miss my line sisters! I just miss being home! But I'm remembering my goals and dreams and why I came out here in the first place.

I am more than likely going to be working for PNC Bank. Its salary so I won't complain but I would prefer a job that I really want to do. This job is going require a lot of training and a lot of work on my end which ultimately get me a lot of experience but idk....I'm just complaining i guess.

Anyway, so i need to give you nosy people a good laugh real quick....its of course about relationships. So I've been here for a little over a month, and in the process I met this really sweet guy name DeeJay! Well DeeJay was everything you could ever ask for in a guy, smart, handsome, God fearing, and not to mention he had a GREAT paying job. So me and DJ were going out on dates, working out together and whatnot just having a great time. Well last Wednesday, DeeJay and I went to out to eat and went to a Wizards game. On the ride home we talked about dating and how much we liked each other....we even talked about trips to NYC, L.A and Georgia coming up! Well about 1:30 am that night, I get a text from HIS WIFE!!! WTF????????????????
Now, let me begin to tell you this...this is the second time this has happened to me! Why me? Why?

The moral of this story....CHECK YOUR MAN'S CELL PHONE. If she never looked in his phone, she would of never called me and I would of never known he was married. Ladies, you know how you spend the night over your "boos" house and you know that feeling you get that someone else has been there? Even worst, he is sleep and his phone is RIGHT THERE! CHECK IT GIRL! LOL Now I say all this to say that if you are talking to a great guy and you have doubt check it, don't be all in his phone all the time just to be nosy. Especially if y'all aren't even considered a couple, you can't get mad.

I'll post more about that....but isn't that just crazy!?!!! It happens to me all the time, its nothing lol.

So I'll keep you guys updated on my life in the upcoming days/weeks.

My life in VA pt.1

So, as you all know, I moved to Virginia on Tuesday and I think this was the best decision I've made yet!! I am staying with my family in this big beautiful house on three acres! All the neighbors wave as they drive by lol! Anyway, today I applied for jobs ALL day, and tried to stay out the way of the cleaning lady. They have two cute little dogs named nacho and ninja!!! Oh and my cousin woke up early with me this morning and made me the best breakfast ever! I love it here! They are so nice, and willing to help me! Tomorrow is a big day. We are going on a business trip to DC. I know we are going several places but one of them is the Pentagon. My uncle knows people everywhere so he is going to introduce me to a couple of people tomorrow so we shall seeeee!! =) Big things BIG THINGS coming up in my life! I am super excited....this year, Im not going to talk about it, I'm going to talk about it and DO IT! Well its 11pm, long day tomorrow and i need sleep!
I'll keep you all updated, sorry if I havent talk to many of you much lately, I really have been busy and trying to adjust and learn my way around!! But i love and miss each of you (you know who you are) ok...stay tuned...more big announcements coming up this year!!

Chi City Mayne!

Ok, I just love this guy! He is hilarious and I told some of you about him but here is your op to be the judge for yourself. Check out his other vids...of course I've seen most of them...ENJOY!