**Taken from a friend, thanks Mellissa**
Are you looking for someone or something to "complete you"? You might be single but just as well might be married. Single people aren't alone when it comes to believing that there is someone out there that is capable of satisfying their every need...One person to provide love, security, excitement and inspiration. Someone to support you physically, emotionally and financially allowing you maximize your one lifetime.
Too common are the affairs, breakups and abuse which become the sad result of the awareness that "something is missing". That "something" must be the fault of your partner either in what they don't give you or for what they fail to bring out in you. Or maybe they were simply the wrong choice as what you need surely is available through another. How could you be expected to endure a lifetime "knowing" that there is something more out there? After all, you only live once, settling isn't an option and wouldn't it be a shame to have regrets in the end?
Your emptiness or void is real and it is right for you to take action to fill it. However, for many people the changes they make only seem to compound prior mistakes. Without any understanding of what "it...is" you will inevitably look in the wrong places for answers.
Without a clear determination of what it is that you seek your decisions will be random and will produce only distractions in your life...not satisfaction. Changing partners will not necessarily bring the satisfaction you seek, but may only delay the awareness of your real solutions.
These changes become distractions that may consume your thoughts, time and energies for a while but expect that when the infatuation or newness is gone you will again be left with that same old feeling that something is missing again.
It is right for you to pursue a different course for your life but wrong to continue the failed patterns that directed you to where you currently stand. A different way is what you need but you should learn more about it first.
