This is really a subject that concerns my frustration with males (most, not all) I am personally getting tired of meeting lame, boring, WACK, lying, dull, trifling guys! Where are all the good ones hiding??? No, I don't want a "cakin' buddy" and NO I don't want to be in a "complicated" relationship! If you spend time with a girl but don't call her your girlfriend, then guess what?? She is still your girlfriend...why?? because the only difference is the title! Ladies, stop settling for that! If a guy wants to be with you, he will... Don't settle for him telling you he wants to just be friends but he wants you to come spend the night! WTF?? Tell him NO, put your shoes on, get in your car, and take your butt home...because he does not want you!
Have you ever been excited about a guy and you tell your friends about him? So your friends are all excited and saying they can't wait to meet him. So you and this new guy talk often but you really don't get to see each other because every time you get a chance to see him, he cancels the date because "something came up"?? Well now your friends are telling you girl leave him alone...what do you do? Yep, you guessed it, leave him alone...he is just not that interested in you. If he was that interested, trust and believe that he will MAKE time for you!
My point is this...don't wait on a guy to get his sh*t together. Don't wait on a guy who tells you he is going to do better. Don't wait on a guy who tells you he is busy but he tells you the night before that he went to the movies with another girl...yeah his "friend"... Don't wait on a guy to be happy. Don't wait on a guy won't wait on you! Time waits for no one and excuse my french but time DAMN SURE AIN'T BOUT TO START WAITING ON HIM!!
Let me know about a personal experience you had with waiting on a guy that you really liked or loved and what made you realize that you were worth more than that...
2 comments:
oooh this is a good one girl!!
ok it's like u knew exactly what i was going through except that is the experience of so many young women. i liked this guy soooooo much girl (i told you bout him and you saw how fine he was at my bday) but he didn't like me like that. like he would show interest and things were great between us and everytime i made my mind up to leave him alone, he would say or do something sweet and i would go right back to my dreamy fairytale wonderworld. anywho i finally got my shit together and realize HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO ME!!!! now i'm able to still be cool with him but i will not allow myself to fall for him again.
i am happy to say that i am ridiculously HAPPY! my baby is soooo sweet even though he is so far away (girl brooklyn!:^( )but he cares about what makes me happy and i am just so happy with him!
so don't wait on a dude who not trying to be with you. let it go! move on to bigger and better things!
yes! when you stick around a guy that treats you good only when the "relationship" is threatened...you need to move around because he is only doing JUST ENOUGH to keep you around. If you love yourself you know that you deserve ABOVE JUST ENOUGH. Think about it like this, if he does something to you, would you treat yourself like that? If the answer is no, MOVE AROUND! LOL
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