And it's true! You can tell a girl that you are really into her (more than just the fact that she is pretty but also because she is smart and has a good head on her shoulders) and you want to start a relationship with her. But what should she believe when you give her every reason to think that you just want to have sex with her? Lets just say you meet a nice young man that you have a lot in common with. You talk to him all the time but you never really get a chance to hang out with him. Then one day you go over his house and have a good time. Just as you open your car door to leave, he hugs you and starts kissing you on your neck. WTF??? Um excuse me, we just started hanging out, and you mean to tell me that you thought it would be OK for you to kiss me on my neck??
I think the issue at hand goes deeper than the actual picture. Guys are so use to girls that don't mind that and they are confused when the reaction is NOT "oh baby I like that".
What upsets me the most about the situation is that we talk about our GROWING relationships with God all the time and we also talked about watching a guys actions and not listening to his words. He tells me how he is different (HA!) from other guys and how much he really likes me as a person, not just because I am pretty. So what made him think that it would be OK to kiss me on my neck (which in my opinion is a form of seduction) the FIRST time we hang out?????
I just don't understand guys! And I probably never will. I guess I will remain single until I can find a MAN who is ACTIVELY pursuing a SERIOUS relationship with God just as I am. No I don't expect him to be a perfect saint, but I DO expect him to control his emotions or feelings in that type of situation. I'm a child of God and for those who don't know that means I'm royalty...so start treating me that way!
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